FROM SUICIDAL TO SUCCESSFUL IN DATING
I was an entrepreneur at a hot new brain supplement startup here in Austin, TX.
But I was SUICIDAL.
It was 2014.
I was successful enough to have a lot of time freedom and money to travel and work on myself and learn and grow during the time other than the 10-20 hours a week I was working.
I was success in every area but in this ONE - dating and relationships: I was JUST successful enough with women to have hope of creating what I desired, but not successful enough to have it.
I would connect with ladies and get phone number after phone number…
And then call the woman up or text her and get no response.
There was something off in my expression.
There was something off in ME.
And I didn’t know WHAT.
No matter what I tried, I couldn’t figure it out.
I was what we call The Wounded Warrior. I was stuck unfulfilled and seeing myself as a problem to solve, not getting what I desired, lacking direction, sedating my pain with TV and porn.
So I hired my first dating and relationship coach, and with his help, I dug myself out of the hole. ..or so I THOUGHT!
I learned some helpful stuff:
🔥 I discovered that my true social and sexual value is completely independent of how I think and feel about myself at any time. (So is yours!)
🔥 I discovered that there are simple techniques and skills for expressing YOU that work powerfully to capture the attention of those you desire to share yourself with most. (And they're learnable!)
🔥 I started to BE differently: I started to trust that I AM THE GIFT, that my worth is independent of my results.
And I started to do NEW things from a NEW energy: I started practicing specific, easeful techniques for expressing myself that naturally drew the people I found most resonant to me.
And low and behold, I started to have some epic adventures:
❤️🔥 I created a first date with a stripper I met at Central Market who invited me back to her apartment where we swam and talked and…I’ll stop there.
❤️🔥 I enjoyed a friends with benefits connection with a successful artist who had a rocking space in East Austin (who I met after hot yoga one evening).
❤️🔥 I created an open relationship with a cute stoner who was hip to the hippy vibes (the woo woo) I was just starting to embody.
❤️🔥 Not long later, I created a monogamous relationship with a powerful, uplifting, brilliantly intelligent, resonant massage therapist (ashiatsu) and coach, who was a beautiful support to the beginning of my journey as a solopreneur and new coach myself.
But something was still off.
Despite different outer world results and new skills that I could use to create them, I carried my WOUNDS into these new interactions. And I continued to suffer, unsatisfied.
No matter how much sex I had, or who I created a relationship with, it never succeeded in filling the void.
I was still acting from those wounds, rather than my wholeness.
I was still trying to fix myself. I was still treating myself as a PROBLEM to solve.
It took another 7 years of work - and being in some extremely painful situations and SO MANY failed relationships - to discover the TRUTH:
🙌🏻 We’re naturally capable of creating whatever we desire; it’s the STRUCTURE that we're in that serves us or gets in the way. You don't have to fix yourself or work on yourself forever with all the modalities and workshops and trainings...you just need to change your FOCUS and BEHAVIOR! (And we CAN shift that!)
🙌🏻 When we live from Purpose, we are naturally magnetic and attractive and don't have to try so hard. It's actually super fucking simple to create what you desire and be with people.
🙌🏻 When we stop trying to get results out here in the world to subconsciously try to fix what we think is wrong with us - aiming at what we THINK will fix the problem, rather than what we REALLY want - we are FREE to actually create what our heart MOST desires, what's MOST resonant with our souls, and to FINALLY be fulfilled in what we are creating.
So I’ll tell you this:
🙏🏻 If you’re smart but nothing you’ve tried seems to work for you…
🙏🏻 If you’re successful in all areas but this one and can’t seem to crack the code…
🙏🏻 If you don't know what to say or how to be to be attractive AND authentic around women...
🙏🏻 If you have high aspirations and strong desires but feel stifled…
🙏🏻 If you're ready to be DONE WITH working on yourself and simply shift your focus, behavior, and identity to where you're getting the results you desire...
I’ve been there.
And if you (like I was) are experiencing any of the above, you're probably missing at least one of the FIVE DIMENSIONS of Make Love Easy:
(1) Become A Social Rockstar - communicate from authenticity and your unique resonance to receive the Love, sex, and connection you desire.
(2) Step Into The Awakened Identity - Shift your identity through shifting your focus and behavior, without fighting or fixing yourself, to create what you truly desire without self-sabotage...stop living from your wounds and start living from your wholeness!
(3) Cultivate Vibrant Health And Vitality - build power in your body, breath, and energy field through (as some examples of what we teach) conscious nutrition, breathwork, and the cultivation of the Three Treasures of Chinese medicine, so that you can be magnetic for your good with your woman AND your world. Using the principles of Tantra, Ayurveda, essential oils, and special touch and massage techniques, give your partner an experience sexually unlike ANYTHING she's ever had before...and carry that confidence back out into your world with any woman you're attracted to.
(4) Become Coempowered and Conscious in Communication - conflict proof and debug codependence in your relationships through intentional agreements and using language that creates THRIVING in partnership.
(5) Live Your Purpose - step into your EDGE and aspire to your highest potential. THIS will make you maximally attractive to women.
This is why we designed the MAKE LOVE EASY 6-week Accelerator Program, where we begin to lead you into practicing and embodying the five dimensions for yourself - also giving you the tools to clean up your mindset, your identity, and your relationship with yourself...as well as what you need to express out here in the world with grace, ease, and alignment.
💪🏻 The program includes the tools my client Bennie, an actor, used to go from anxious with women to manifesting the exact dates and women he desired through swiping on Tinder.
💪🏻 It includes the distinctions I gave my friend Richard - a marriage coach - that he used to juice up his sexual fulfillment in his relationship with his wife.
💪🏻 It includes what I taught my first dating client Iman - a photographer and videographer who was dealing with autism - to get him from zero dates to his first date, his first makeout, and his first time having sex.
In other words, no matter where you're starting from, we have GOT YOU. And we've thought this through very carefully from all the angles to build a comprehensive system for you.
What's involved in the program itself?
⚡ 6 Weekly 1:1 30 minute coaching calls with me to do the internal work each week.
⚡ Optional: 6 Weekly group Q/A calls to create clarity around what to do, where to focus, and how to implement the five dimensions week.
⚡ 6 powerful recorded Modules to help you learn, master, and practice the Five Dimensions.
⚡ Bonus PDFs and trainings to easily learn the structure of Enchantment and Agreements and MORE in your partnership...
⚡ An exclusive FB Messenger thread for lavish support between calls.
⚡ Access to my (ever-expanding) network of badass men, experts, teachers, healers, coaches, communities, and events to raise your standards and connect with high-vibration top-quality potential dates and wingmen to support you in building what you desire.
⚡ Optional Bonus: 3 LIVE Meetups in Austin TX to practice heart-centered social dynamics in real life AND to cultivate masculine POWER.
All this for $497/month paid over three months.
DM me for the payment link or for a conversation, if you're clear you're interested.
Sweet Lou ❤️🔥
Enjoy the LOVE I've helped others to make easy! For example:
Creating new relationships and better sex <3
Would you like a copy of the step-by-step PDF my client used to generate $6k in new coaching income between March 1 - 11, 2022? ❤️🔥